Top 10 Mistakes In Approaching Women

nuked — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 05:10:04 GMT

Top 10 Mistakes In Approaching Women

Are you able to approach attractive women consistently and grab their attention?

Let's face it: Most men are clueless when it comes  to approaching women and they make a lot of costly mistakes.  Are you making these same mistakes? If you are, I can almost guarantee that it's turning away women you could be DATING right NOW.

Keep in mind that I am writing this article for the average looking guy. If you have ...

Explode Your Influence (EYI)

matt_me49 — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 16:16:04 GMT

this is an 11 page short book on learning how to get into the top social circles. its written by a guy who did health club promotions in areas and by doing so got into the top levels of society (wierd.. a gym promoter being the most popular and wanted man around). he says hes not a fan of doing things the hard way which is pretty much everyone and goes about the steps to take in obtaining the top social interaction. 9 rules with some extra material such as power networking 101 and the services ...

First DHV Story I Wrote ! Any good?

Cndos — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 12:02:44 GMT

Switches:

Pre-Selected

Woman Emotions

Protector of Loved Ones

Story:

Hey, Are you jealous sometime?

HB: Blabla @*#$ it

Well i got a good girlfriend. Her name is *&*^

If she sees a girl is talking to her boyfriend she get so Jealous !

She wants to punish the girl all up haha

maybe even killing her hehe. I know shes a sweet girl,

but sometimes she get overrun by her own emotions.

At that point i have to calm her down. otherwise she goes into rage haha.

But ...

The Coolness Test (K-Close routine)

Grape — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 02:18:17 GMT

Okay, so I was making this up as I was gaming a girl, pretty nice routine with push-pull, kino, and more.

PUA: Blablabla, but I don't know if you're cool enough... I don't know if I should let you guys take my coolness test.

Target(s): Ohh Let us take it!! or Can we take it?!

PUA: Woahh, already failed the first part, you dont (ask/demand) to take it, you (demand/ask) it!!

Target(s): hahahahahaa

PUA: Secondly, you don't laugh at your mistakes. Come on!! Stand up straight and look lively!(Kino!!)

Target(s): ...

advice

DeeBee — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 21:40:50 GMT

hey everyone,hope yous dont mind a paddy on the forum,im very new to this and im lookin for a bit of advice,i found out about this through jsmooth and he reckoned you guys could help me,heres my problem,im a good looking bloke and pretty flash,style and sportscar and all that but im a real nice guy and some off my friends who dont hav what i hav tend to get more attention by the way they act,im kind of shy and not that confident,im not really looking to become a pick up master as such just to ...

Opinion opener

Flipz — Wed, 28 May 2008 20:25:11 GMT

So I was workin and I recieved a text mesage from a friend. She is a female who doesnt know anything about the game or the society but sent me an opener that i loved and am probably going to use soon. Its different and I have never heard it used.

Tell me what you think.

"Hey let me get your opinion on this one. If you have sex with a prostitute and dont pay for it...is it rape or is it shoplifting?"

I found it funny and am curious to see if it works.

Opinions?

What up?!

Shenanigan — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 16:16:14 GMT

Hey, it's Shenanigan here! Found this site from El Topo's blog, looks really sweet!! I've been in the game for a while but haven't been able to do as much as I've wanted to b/c work, skool, yall get the drill..but I'm recently graduated and will be startin my real life soon so I can get into this much more! Glad everyone is here to help each other, lookin forward to it guys, peace!

Grand Entrance...

LaRockStar — Tue, 10 Jun 2008 05:48:05 GMT

Whats happenin?

A lot of you guys know me from the PUAF board, others may not.

I attended a kickass workshop down in Miami with Rye, Kino, and Zig.

Plan on seeing J here in a few months to go out sarging and to get over some stickys...

Looking to improve. I know a lot of game, I just don't know how to use it.

My favorite analogy to describe where I am at right now in this entire PUA world is:

"Bill Belicheck knows how to coach, but that doesn't mean he could throw the ...

Matador's Kiss Gambit

JSmooth — Fri, 06 Jun 2008 21:18:45 GMT

Matador's Gum Kiss Gambit

*This is primarly used in C1, and isoalated

*Comes from Mind of Mystery Series

*Need one piece of gum

Matador: Takes out a piece of gum, holds it in front of her for a second. Then feeds it to his target, placing his finger in her mouth doing this, and he does it slowly. (No conversation)

Target: (Chews gum for a bit)

Matador: (Few Minutes Later) "By the way....I'm an Indian Giver, I want my gum back."(Lean in to 90%, and make her come the other 10%). ...

Approach Anxiety - Don't be afraid!

JSmooth — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 21:16:31 GMT

Approach Anxiety

This post was brought on by a student who recently contacted me. He's read all kinds of literature and signed up for different things about how to get over this. However, he hasn't really made any approaches. I personally know that this student in question has even attended workshops and not approached women. So let's take a look at this word anxiety.

Anxiety is defined as: Anxiety is a physiological state characterized by cognitive, somatic, emotional, and behavioral ...

Sample Vault Content

L.A. Tripp — Sat, 07 Jun 2008 03:24:24 GMT

pm from Jsmooth to members . . .

Valued Vault Member,

I know it was just about a week ago I sent you all messages saying what we had in the Vault to that Point with a few dozen ebooks and some videos. Here is the complete up to the minute list of what we have. Some of you have requested other series and we will do our best to get them if we can, and get them uploaded. I want to remind you if you have a request for material let us know what it is and where we can get it. There is definately ...

Real World Seduction

nuked — Fri, 16 May 2008 22:30:47 GMT

Beyond the use of the M3 Model this is my favorite guru ebook. Swinggcat does a great job explaining the three different kinds of men women want, and how you can be them. If I had to make a top 3 list of books for newbies to read on "how to books" it would be as follows.

Venusian Arts Handbook - Mystery. Acclimates you to the M3 model.

Magic Bullets - Savoy. Adds more information to the above.

Real World Seduction - Swinggcat. Shows you how to have the mentality of a man women ...

False Disqualifiers

JSmooth — Fri, 28 Mar 2008 20:56:13 GMT

Since Negs are also False Disqualifiers here we go:

It would never work out between us...

I can already tell, you and I are not going to get along

You're fired!

You're too much of a nice girl for me.

You're a dancer? Oh my god, I can't even talk to you.

I'm totally not boyfriend material. Hey, that guy over there looks perfect for you.

We are so broken up. I want my CD's back.

Your first impression sucked...

If I wasn't gay...

You know why you ...

Ring finger routine

Vedere — Fri, 25 Apr 2008 18:39:03 GMT

I love this routine. You can switch to this easily by saying "Hey.. I noticed that you wore your ring on this finger.. It says a lot about you".

( I don't like to use the "If you would wear a ring, where would you wear it?" ( As style suggests ) ).

It goes like this.

The little places that connect the fingers with the hands are called mounts. Some of you who know about palmistry should know that.

In the ancient times, people wore the ring on the finger of ...

HEY! Yea you. I need your input. But only if your GOOD at this

Hobbit — Mon, 02 Jun 2008 16:15:27 GMT

I don't usually care for sarging and not very partial towards the majority of girls found in clubs. However, a guy I'm teaching needed to learn how to push through AA and etc. Well he did fairly good on each approach and only one or two of his sets went bad that night out of like eight. However, each set that was going good the same thing happened to him. A girl would come over that wasn't initially in the group and pull her away, for whatever reason.

Sometimes after this happened, the target ...

Who is betterthany00?

betterthany00 — Thu, 29 May 2008 18:52:06 GMT

Ah well I am a PUA from evansville, IN. I have been in the game for about 4-5 years now. I had first got into the game from a good friend I worked with that was heavy into Ross Jeffries and NLP. He actually had compiled a notebook of things he had pulled off forums and field tested that I read through. As me and my wing did a lot of traveling, and I would read things, we would go hit up bars and all sorts of different places and we would try things out and he would critique me on things that ...

State of Mind The #1 Factor

TheDean — Sat, 24 May 2008 06:40:26 GMT

The 6 Supreme Factors of Attraction

No doubt most of you want a phrase or a technique that will make you a true PUA. Well, the way I see it is this: techniques are good, phrases are good, but the only thing which is ABSOLUTELY UNBEATABLE is the DEAN State of mind. Below I list the 6 factors which every true PUA has mastered. Once you have conditioned yourself so that they are part of you (this will not be easy unless you remind yourself why you are doing it each and every day, and persist) ...

On the Fly Method

Whoopie — Wed, 02 Apr 2008 19:22:10 GMT

I am posting it here now to make it available for the public.

Now, I think most people try to hard to come up with a opener. Its not about the words you say but its how you deliver and carry yourself when it comes out. If your unsure about it, it will be seen in your body language. I can't remember who said this but everything comes down to 80% body language and 20% of what actually come outs. Alot of people are still using canned openers or can not come up with one for themselves. There ...

Rizla opener

BTAFC — Tue, 20 May 2008 15:00:46 GMT

I came up with this a couple of weeks ago and have been out testing it out. It's pretty direct/full on and I'm sure you old-pros will spot some flaws in it but going from the reactions I've been getting I like it a lot.

"hey, I've got something for you"

"What.."

"This" Take out a cigarette paper

They look at me like I'm mad/an idiot/where the feck is he going with this?

"it's a magic rizla, look"

I then light it, there's a flash of light ...

J. Smooth Original Openers

JSmooth — Sat, 24 May 2008 03:19:04 GMT

Everyone here are some J. Smooth Original Openers that I use in field. For you benefit of being able to hear "how" I say them I have recorded several of my favorites and placed them here for you. Hope you enjoy them.

(13:07min)

Sup

Illidan — Sun, 25 May 2008 19:17:30 GMT

Hi,

I'm here to improve myself with women. I'm not looking to manipulate them but rather to improve myself thus leading them to like me.

Illidan

StyleLife's 5 Attraction Keys

L.A. Tripp — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 20:21:08 GMT

Attraction Key #1: YOUR SMILE

Never underestimate the power of a smile. Smiling is a

classic social technique, no doubt...but it is still a

micro-method that we need to be reminded of. After all, we

aren't looking at our face most of the time, so we tend to

forget the default expression we are emitting. Remedy this

condition by installing a mirror facing you at your desk, or

another place where you spend a lot of time. Look into the

mirror often and upgrade your expression.

Smile ...

Your Most Powerful Tool In The Bedroom

nuked — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 07:35:06 GMT

During my last two years of college, I had a college sweetheart who I found to be very cute and sexy. She also happened to be very intelligent, very high self esteem, and extremely sexual.

We had very good sex. We did it often and always had simultaneous orgasms.

But here's where it gets really interesting...

One day she said to me "As you know, I love horses. Well, I also admire how they are very animalistic when they have sex. And when we do it doggy style, I sometimes imagine ...

Hola amigos. =]

Ashli — Fri, 23 May 2008 08:35:00 GMT

Hi, I'm Ashli. I'm guessing I'm here to spread

around my spiffy lil' opinion to those who want to hear it =].

Nuked showed me this place, so hopefully I can

help ya'll out =].

The Remote Control Egg

nuked — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 07:36:04 GMT

This incorporates characteristics from both Dominance and public sex.

I was surfing the web, and being the twisted demented creative person that I am, always looking for new ways to let my girlfriend have fun, I came across a 'remote control egg.' This is a small plastic egg shaped vibrator that is turned on and off by radio commands from a small remote control. I thought "Remote control! I have an idea!" I immediately ordered one.

Do a search on the Web for Swedish Erotica ...

"Issue #10 - The 'nip it in the bud' technique"

L.A. Tripp — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:22:35 GMT

My girlfriend told me about a technique that one of her ex-boyfriends used to do to her, and she asked me if I would do it to her. She explained it as follows: "You hold the entire length of the hood of the clitoris between your thumb and forefinger and slide it up towards the patch and down towards the vagina."

I did the technique on her. I held her labia open with the thumb and forefinger of my left hand, and then I placed the thumb and forefinger of my right hand on either side ...

"Issue #9 - The Welcomed Method"

L.A. Tripp — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:20:02 GMT

Most women believe that direct stimulation of the naked tip of the clit is too sensitive. My girlfriend said the same thing. When she masturbates, she goes in a circular motion. She also prefers that I touch her clit in the same manner. She does not like the naked tip of the clit to be touched, as it is "too much." She prefers the hood to be rubbed over the clit, providing a "pushing" pressure onto the clit.

My friend Brent lent me a video he ordered from the web site: ...

"Issue #8 - The Clit is just the tip of the iceburg"

L.A. Tripp — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:13:00 GMT

Mark Cunningham once said that the clitoris is much longer than commonly thought. I checked the anatomy books, and it is true. It appears that the tip of the clitoris is just the tip of the iceberg. The body of the clitoris extends down in a V shape to either side of the urethra and opening of the vagina, just under the labia.

So I headed into the love lab to test a new idea on my willing subject. As she laid on her back, I placed the fingers of my hand over her labia, with my palm towards ...

"Issue #7 - Beginner bedmanship questions"

L.A. Tripp — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:07:45 GMT

Sometimes I get questions from mature men who are stuck at the beginner level. This person gave me permission to repeat his questions.

Hi David. I'm a real sentimental fool nice-guy AFC when it comes to being sexual with a woman. I have read a lot of the ASF archives. Even gotten depressed at points, because the knowledge challenged my old notions so aggressively.

Here's where you went wrong. You let the knowledge depress you instead of enlightening you. Personally, I found the knowledge ...

"Issue #6 - Where's the G spot?"

L.A. Tripp — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:06:22 GMT

In the 1940s, a German gynecologist and sex researcher Ernst Grafenberg, discovered a patch of soft spongy tissue in the front wall of the vagina, about an inch and a half in, directly behind the pubic bone, which when stimulated by deep pressure, produces a vaginal orgasm, distinctly different from clitoral orgasm, challenging Kinsey, and Master and Johnson, who maintained that female orgasm is solely a product of clitoral stimulation. (See diagram below.) Of course, we don't need sex researchers ...

"Issue #5 - The One Hour Cum"

L.A. Tripp — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:00:58 GMT

DG wrote: David, can you really give a woman a one hour orgasm?

It is absolutely true that a woman can cum continuously for an entire hour. And I don't mean "close," or "orgasm," I mean CUMMING continuously for one entire hour.

The ground breaking book on the subject is "ESO: How You and Your Lover Can Give Each Other Hours of Extended Sexual Orgasm" by Alan Brauer and Donna Brauer, Copyright 1983, ISBN 0-446-38645, 225 pages. The methods of stimulation described in the book are not ...

"Issue #4 - Letter from R"

L.A. Tripp — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:55:30 GMT

This letter comes from "R" a practitioner of pre-NLP trials and errors....

Just a note to support your work on the Deep Spot. Years ago, when I was in college in the 1960's, I found myself more than once in a setting provided by our school administration in the days before co-ed dorms. There was a lounge open all day, with the lights off and the FM radio on, and no through traffic. The idea was that we would neck, and they wouldn't peek, possibly on the theory that we were safer ...

"Issue #3 - The Deep Spot"

L.A. Tripp — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:51:20 GMT

I wrote two articles for OUI magazine: "Using NLP to Slip in the Back Door" November 2000, and "The Deep Spot" September 2000, shown here.

Forget about the 'g' spot, go for 'the deep spot.' About seven years ago, I was dating a 22 year old woman who had never had an orgasm. She did have one long term boyfriend, so I knew that intercourse or face @*#$ would not do the trick. So I just took my time finding what would feel good for her. With my middle finger I searched for her "g" spot, but ...

"Issue #2 - Rump Ranger Report"

L.A. Tripp — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:40:07 GMT

Hi David. First, thanks for taking the time to do the column! There are many forums out there, but most of the good ones are focused directly on how to get a woman into bed the first time. What to do with a woman after she is having sex with you is only a lightly covered subject. I hope this advice column becomes successful.

Here is my question. There is a girl that I have been with for a while, and I have been trying to gently warm her up to the idea of anal sex. It's not something she's ...

Club Openers

bigP — Fri, 23 May 2008 20:26:25 GMT

Hey Guys,

I wanted to experiement with some direct game inside a club im going to tonight. What are some good direct openers for a club?

CHeers

"Issue #1 - Getting Things Started"

L.A. Tripp — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:28:08 GMT

Some men have said "On the first night, we get most of our clothes off, and I start fingering her. She gets off, then says 'I've already gotten what I wanted tonight' and I end up getting nothing."

I've certainly made THAT mistake before! That happened to me once or twice in college, and I stopped doing THAT.

Here's the general rule to follow for the consummation. There will be NO touching of clit or pussy until ALL the clothes are off. There can be lots of nipple sucking ...

Running list of Pet Names!

Ka — Thu, 22 May 2008 18:00:09 GMT

So im a huge fan of using pet names. I try to come up with fresh ones all the time as i like to mix them up on a girl instead of using the same old boring ones.

Sometimes they are completely void of meaning i just use them, sometimes they are situation like the person is sick or triped or something, sometimes they are racial but apropriate.

I try and use these asap, the sooner you introduce these the better. Some good signs are when a person refers to themselves using your pet name, ...

New here

CK#24 — Tue, 20 May 2008 07:50:13 GMT

Yo im Corey, new to this site looking to become a PUA

I was referred by my friend TheRussianStar-- hes my mentor.

You guys are mustard!

BTAFC — Wed, 14 May 2008 04:03:50 GMT

Hello,

Geo from Belfast here. I'm a magician by trade. Don't know if I want to be a PUA maybe just a chump with the skills of a PUA. I'm not what you would call typically handsome so it's fun to get one over on all the beautiful people.

I recently read the Style book and also the one by the Gambler. Fun stuff. I can see how most of it applies.

What I found interesting about some of the theories is I have used a lot of them before I knew them by random acts of chumpery. Playing the ...

Seeing vs. Believing

JSmooth — Tue, 20 May 2008 16:25:19 GMT

Seeing vs. Believing

I was having a conversation with a friend in the scene last night who has been on the forums a while but is just now starting to impliment these things into his game. He told me after recently attending a workshop that members from this forum put on he got to see this stuff working, and it really helped him. He knew it could be done and that all the stuff in the videos and books wasn't just some big sales gimic. Now he is starting to go out and get better, and plans ...

Venusian Arts Handbook

nuked — Sat, 05 Apr 2008 00:10:03 GMT

To all you new guys this is, a great read to get started on your way to PUA. However, its some what hard to find and get a hold of. So, when you get here PM me asking about it and I can tell you were to get it.

what to read for conversational skills?

PUA to be — Sun, 18 May 2008 08:34:21 GMT

Hey everyone, i think this should be the right section to post this in but if its not feel free to move it. Alright, so i feel that the weakest point in my game is the fact that i suck at conversating and i suck at keeping the conversations going and also keeping them fun. Ive asked this question many many times but i still have a problem with it. I want to ask you guys and see if there are any good books i can pick up and read about fun and interesting conversations or good open ended conversational ...

Ten Dangerous Mistakes

L.A. Tripp — Thu, 15 May 2008 04:44:37 GMT

�The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably

Make With Women�

And What To Do About It...�

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women�And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

-By David DeAngelo, Author Of �Double Your Dating�

MISTAKE #1: Being

Too Much Of A �Nice Guy�

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure ...

The Mystery Method and magic bullets

PUA to be — Fri, 16 May 2008 09:36:36 GMT

Hey guys, i just thought i would share my thoughts on these two books i wont lie i did not purchase them i downloaded them lol. Anyway, i found both these books to be very very similar sometimes i actually felt that one of them stole ideas from the other. Both books were very easy to understand and follow. The Mystery Method was filled with stories, examples, etc. Also i downloaded the book on tape version of the mystery method and uploaded it all to my mp3 player which i can listen to every ...

Extramask Podcast 5/1/08

JSmooth — Fri, 02 May 2008 04:01:57 GMT

Extramask aka 26 aka Barry Kirkey has a pretty new and good Podcast that they just did. You can download the audio file at. He talks a lot about getting rid of the words "Seduction, Player, PUA" from the community. He's funny to listen to and it's almost like listening to a morning radio show. This is more of wants going on in the community podcast that instructional, but it's informative.

This isn't available to just anyone... Barry wrote me:

"Hi J.

Wanted to say thanks again ...

Why VERY INTELLIGENT Men Fail With Women

L.A. Tripp — Thu, 15 May 2008 04:42:14 GMT

The Ten Reasons Why HIGHLY INTELLIGENT Men Fail With Women... AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT...

I've been teaching men how to become more successful with women and dating for a several years now... and one "problem scenario" just keeps coming up OVER AND OVER... and OVER

and OVER and OVER again...

...and it's really amazes me.

I'm going to refer to it as "The Genius Failure Paradox".

"The Genius Failure Paradox" is the tendency for UNUSUALLY intelligent ...

5 Myths

L.A. Tripp — Thu, 15 May 2008 04:36:06 GMT

5 Myths Preventing Men From Attracting Women...

Myth #1: Being an Attractive Man Is Always About Appealing To What Women Say They Want.

If you are one of those vehement supporters of this myth, you should get a noose and hang yourself - you'll be better off. Trying to get a woman to like you by attempting to live up to her ideal preferences in a man is a one way ticket to transforming your ego into a proverbial punching bag. Women prefer tall dark handsome rich men, packing dogs with ...

Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work

L.A. Tripp — Thu, 15 May 2008 04:25:35 GMT

Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman and thought to himself, "Wow! She really works those breasts, bouncy bouncy."

Next, he went up to talk to her and within the first thirty seconds of conversation the poor bastard went belly up as she hammered him to jelly. He, then, walked away hunchbacked and long faced, wearing an existential funk ten times the size of his deflated ego.

You can probably relate. I know I can. I've been there about a billion times. ...

What Women Want in a Man

L.A. Tripp — Thu, 15 May 2008 04:23:31 GMT

If you want to have more romantic interactions with women, that does NOT mean that you need to "take women out on dates" in order to do it.

***QUESTION***

Hi Dave,

I just bought the advanced CD series & it's amazing what a difference they make over the book. Being able to listen on the way to work, whilst out doing chores, etc. is cool. I can feel the confidence building inside me, it's like my own personal coach.

The C&F doesn't come naturally to me at present ...

Not Being a Wussy

L.A. Tripp — Thu, 15 May 2008 04:10:31 GMT

It really is amazing that there is a way to have success with women... while still being an honest, straight-shooting guy.

***SUCCESS STORY:

Hey Dave,

Just wanted to drop you a line on how my personal story has been going since I started doing things "your way". I have checked every "girl strategy" out there, you know the ones, and have to say that your system is the most simple, and most effective one out there. Your system gives men the start, and allows them ...